An hour long drive is bonkers. Completely reasonable to be annoyed at it. You can't get back to your place that same night. Can't do reasonable dinner plans, let alone spontaneous weekday lunch meetup. Seeing each other becomes a daytrip. Probably the most irksome part is that all your weekends are booked for SO time, now, or you show up Friday night, and leave Saturday night, pass out, then you've only got your Sunday left.